Maya Preisler ([info]girlwithagun) wrote,
@ 2006-12-11 00:50:00
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confucius say
the taoist and the buddhist in my head are having an argument. of course, the buddhist will eventually win. so although the taoist says we can never screw anything up so badly that it cannot be fixed the buddhist says...

each moment we experience is finite and temporary. a missed opportunity can never be recaptured. what might have been is gone forever. all that is left is to make the most of the now.

or in confucius speak: you cannot step in the same stream twice.

so I guess we'll never know now, will we?

I tell my self there's no sense in mourning things that never were; it's just another way to be addicted to my dukkha. I wish I was good about listening to me. I wish lots of silly things.




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[info]kharmacreature
2006-12-11 04:59 am UTC (link)
i don't think i'm a taoist or buddhist - cause i think completely differently. i can adopt some from any belief but not all.

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 04:13 am UTC (link)
mm. well - I don't know that I'm concretely anything... but my head likes to take sides against itself and have these arguments.

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[info]kharmacreature
2006-12-12 04:33 am UTC (link)
that should lead for some funny outcomes.. the two having arguments.. i can litterally see two people on either side having coffee or tea and debating about which one gets to have to whole you... then resulting in 3rd grade behavior of sticking out tongues. *bamboozle* ♥

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 09:09 pm UTC (link)
rofl... yes... it's always like that with my need for balance. sometimes there's a third one who appears and tells the other two to shut up. and I think they do a lot of tongue sticking and hair pulling. wouldn't be my head if they didn't. ^_^ bamboozle!!!!!!!! ♥♥♥

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[info]kharmacreature
2006-12-12 10:28 pm UTC (link)
***laughs her butt off***

wait!

butt, please come back!

i need you!

no, really - i do... "buuuttttttttt"

;)

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-13 06:47 am UTC (link)
*laughs* you know me too well.

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[info]kharmacreature
2006-12-13 07:31 pm UTC (link)
do i? that's awsome!!!

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-14 08:29 am UTC (link)
^_^

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[info]augustusbones
2006-12-11 05:11 am UTC (link)
what did you miss?

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 04:12 am UTC (link)
I guess I don't really know.

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[info]augustusbones
2006-12-12 09:18 am UTC (link)
you must have some idea

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 09:08 pm UTC (link)
only my own projections of what might have been... which probably were way off base anyways. I always think things will be better than they are.

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[info]augustusbones
2006-12-14 12:47 pm UTC (link)
so what exactly "might have been"?

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-15 05:25 am UTC (link)
you're not going to give up till I tell you, are you?

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[info]hotaru_sama666
2006-12-11 05:21 am UTC (link)
Confucius also say "He who go to bed witrh itchy heiny wake up with smelly finger". XD

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 04:10 am UTC (link)
rofl... I love you. :D

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[info]vegawriters
2006-12-11 05:30 am UTC (link)
I tell my self there's no sense in mourning things that never were;

It's hard not to though ...

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 04:10 am UTC (link)
tell me about it.

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[info]shadmere
2006-12-11 11:09 am UTC (link)
The stream's always different, but it's always the same stream. And there will always be more streams. And rivers.

Moments pass, but the experience can be eternal.

A THING of beauty is a joy for ever;
Its loveliness increases; it will never
Pass into nothingness.

-Keats

As for a more concrete application--we will never have exactly the same opportunity twice. The streams are always flowing. But they will forever get you wet. We cannot look at a river and see the difference from moment to moment, from day to day. Similarly, though opportunities will never be identical, they can (and will) often be close enough so that we will never know otherwise.

Do not mourn that which never was. There's enough to embrace that is, can be, and will be. Beauty is emergent.

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-12 04:08 am UTC (link)
actually, in this case, I think both the stream and the people are different.

and in this case, the ship has sailed, the opportunity long gone.

but I appreciate the sentiment... especially the last. you're right - I need to embrace the future and the present... and let beauty emerge.

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[info]polywogg
2006-12-11 09:34 pm UTC (link)
Never resist the unfamiliar....

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[info]girlwithagun
2006-12-11 11:25 pm UTC (link)
excellent advice... thank you. :)

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